There
is something you need from the Sufi Way that you cannot get from any
other source on Earth. This
something does not require your conversion to Islam, nor that
you master Arabic, Persian, Turkish or Urdu. The
viability of the Sufi Way does not depend on Islam, but
rather the viability of Islam depends on the Sufi Way. The honeybee lands on the flower of Islam
and extracts the essence, which is the Sufi meaning, but she then
flies away to make honey; she is not a prisoner of the flower. The taste of the essence is everything.
What
you need from the Sufi Way is not easy to describe or
explain because it is a thing of the Language of the Heart.
The
Sufi, the Knower of the Divine Being, sees nothing of greater value
than the Zikr, the remembrance of the Divine Being in each and
every breath. Try to understand why this is so. But The Secret Protects Itself.
Many
things of the Sufi Way are called “secrets” only
because they need to be withheld from people until they are on
a level of matured attitude and knowledge that would allow for
real understanding and effective experiencing. Premature
disclosures only build up greater entry barriers to the Way. This simple truth itself is an important
thing that is hard to learn from anyone but Sufis. Are you now learning it?
Do
not try to listen to the spiritual music and singing of the Chishti Qawwali’s if there is a proud materialistic
or pretentious person present, or if there are children or adolescents
there with their restless distractions, or if there are men and
women present who are having sexual considerations of one another. It
is also bad if there are people there
having private conversations or making observations to one another
as some sort of superior judges. Everyone
there must be united in the deeply real purpose and attitude of
being there, which is the right meaning of Jam,
gathering. It is difficult
outside the Sufi kind of gathering to find this kind of essential
protocol. For instance, if you listen to the Black
Hat Ceremony recording of the Gyalwa Karmapa of Tibet, you will hear babies and little
children screaming there in America when this “great blessing” was
being given out. No
true Sufi would consider such a gathering valid nor would he or
she promote it or participate in it, not because it is a Tibetan thing, but because it is not
being done right for a valid transmission of Baraka or Blessing. Gatherings that include superficial, distracted
mothers with crying babies are just not Jam Situations, whatever language
or culture is the mental format. Nothing
deeply real can happen like that, whether for Mideasterners, Hindus or Tibetans. If one seeks the Blessing where the unworthy
seek it, one will only get a diluted and distorted Blessing at
best.
One
must always feel rather ashamed for people who attend supposedly
spiritual gatherings, lectures or seminars for reason of their
own entertainment, social stimulation or personal aggrandizement,
which can include possible sexual connections with “like
minded” members of the opposite sex. No
matter how much these people have convinced themselves they are
in pursuit of some higher purpose, they invariably reveal themselves
to be primarily seeking lower purposes, which often is just to
feel a sense of belonging, of being able to get or give attention. So, again, can you think of anyone other
than Sufis who point this social problem out clearly to you?
The
social self of the seeker usually has complete control of the seeker,
who is virtually never aware that he or she is wholly under the
Attention Compulsion Syndrome. The
desire to get or give attention dominates the social self even
in the so-called “spiritual” field of evolutionary
aspiration to improve or get into higher states of consciousness. Many strange changes of beliefs or commitments
can be seen in people who have simply gotten into a more personally
promising attention exchange situation. They
will then say something like, “At last I have met some people
who really care and understand. I
have at last found the true spiritual path.”
The Sufi Way also takes more care of basic
character development than do most other Ways. The
Sufi will try to help you see that you must curb the tendency to
become nasty, annoyed or ill-humored in the face of disruptions
or little inconveniences that arise in daily life. If
you are usually superior, proud and easily annoyed, you are considered
to be virtually unteachable until you
have stopped being like that. Most
modern seekers are of course not worried about being teachable,
but are eager to see what they can get in spite of their atrocious
character defects. One of the main aspects of this problem
is that you have been culturally trained as a Western Consumer. This training forces you to “shop” for
what might help your development. You
trust your Nafs, your outer social self
operating through your material brain, to be able to rightly select
from various sorts of offered “Ways” for sale in the
spiritual marketplace of sellers and buyers. In
the world of sellers and buyers, the higher human development is
treated as a commodity to be evaluated, weighed, by people of random
motives and purposes without regard for their worthiness
or readiness. You should
now be informed, if you will allow it, that you can be sold sacks
of potatoes, computers or even apparently higher books, but you
cannot be sold higher
knowledge or experience. Any
form of spiritual transmission supposedly given for a fee, whether
a Muktananda Shaktipat “intensive” of his successors
or a Carlos Castaneda Tensegrity session
given by his successors, will not give you anything real. In fact it will make you worse rather
than better due to the contagious spiritual and mental illnesses
of all the other participants, not to mention the personal problems
of those “successors”.
Whatever
Way you follow, whether the Sufi Way or a modern universalist composite Way, you
must keep in mind that the Way must genuinely produce complete
liberation from pain, sorrow and trouble of any kind whatsoever. This means that your spiritual development
must never be based on personal, neurotic greed. Whatever titillates your greed is never going to
connect you to your true higher good. The
Way is not there to release you from poverty or any form of human
sense of deprivation or feeling left out.
The Sufi Way wants you to get over your
imaginary virtues or advancements you believe you already possess. If the imaginary development is not set
aside, the real development cannot be built within you. Since you are not as mature or developed
as you like to think you are, why not get from the Sufi Way some useful keys as to how
to develop more mature thinking and aspiration about all this. We promise not to imprison
you in our exclusive tradition nor to make you into a Muslim. Just make sure that you get from us what
you cannot get from anywhere else. If
you then want to be a Zen Master, a Tibetan Naljorpa,
a Mexican Nagual or a Hindu Yogi, go ahead and do that. You might even be able to make a Universal Composite Way actually work. All is in the hands of the Supreme Guiding
Spirit of the Universe. He
is the truly great and there is none greater than He. May
we say this to something in you that can hear it? And, again, do not become a Muslim! But it is imperative that you not be less than
a Sufi even if it is possible to become more and better.
The
simple truth is that you cannot learn what you cannot be taught. However, even if you could be taught, it will
not be in some social expansion group such as one of the Sufi Meditation
Centers in Great Britain. The minute there is advertising and random
recruitment, connection with the Real Centre or Core of our work
has been lost even if it was partially there at one time as with
the students of Idries
Shah. The urgency
to renew the numbers in the face of diminishing interest after
the death of a known Sufi is a known problem recorded over and
over again in the history of the Sufis. Renewal always happens in an apposite manner
which will not itself advertise or encourage random self-selection. Apposite means neither the same nor
the opposite, neither conforming nor critical toward the departed
authority figure.
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